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greengirlie
11-13-2004, 11:22 PM
so yeah my best friend and boyfriend are moving in together. I am the one that suggested it, but then everyone at work says that i set myself up.... what do y'all think?
i would love to think that I could trust them both... but yeah. would y'all trust your best friend and boyfriend living together?
hmmm...this is quite interesting.
put forth the faith smileys/smiley2.gif
greengirlie
11-14-2004, 09:36 AM
hahaah thanks.... i talked to them both tonight and yeah.... i dont know. wow. im always so confused.
well then, so far so good? I'm hoping for you that everything will be just fine.smileys/smiley1.gif
Monica*
11-14-2004, 07:57 PM
aaa... just have faith. that sounds like somethin i would suggest too.
Abilities
11-14-2004, 08:32 PM
tough call
Jaykob
11-15-2004, 03:01 AM
If I were you I'd just get out all the feelings right away! No point in hiding anything that could pose problems in the future. I learned the hard way communication about every and anything is crucial!
greengirlie
11-15-2004, 07:06 AM
aww thanks for the support and saying that you wish things turn out the best for me. yeah, I told them stright up if they were ever even considering or starting to get feelings for each other to jsut tell me straight up. b/c i would def. understand that. they are both fucking awesome! i just dont want to lose two best friends at once :-(
Mr. Cleanface
11-15-2004, 05:58 PM
I would never put myself or my friends in that situation. You are just asking for trouble.
greengirlie
11-15-2004, 06:52 PM
I would never put myself or my friends in that situation. You are just asking for trouble.
That is what everyone else has told me.... that's why I just want to tell my boyfirned I just want to be friends. long distance relationships are no fun anyways smileys/smiley6.gif
Bimdog
11-15-2004, 07:48 PM
You are just asking for trouble.
Bad move if you ask me. Good luck though.
Fox
B-Love
11-16-2004, 04:27 PM
good luck greenie....Just keep a cool head, and hopefully everything will workout for ya!
Disastronaut
11-17-2004, 04:03 AM
not a good idea.
greengirlie
11-17-2004, 05:14 AM
I am just going to have to keep a cool head as B-love said. Plus I mean maybe it's not to oabd of an idea. my older sister lives with two guys and nothing has ever happened between them. i htink it all depends on the people.
Mr. Cleanface
11-17-2004, 05:26 AM
I don't know about the rest of the fellas around here but;
Me + girl roomate = smileys/smiley15.gif
greengirlie
11-17-2004, 05:35 AM
hahahahah well im hoping he loves his sexy little green gf enough not to do that smileys/smiley4.gifJking!
undercoverlover
11-17-2004, 07:15 PM
hmmm well you'll just have to see. but if they ever do any thing that makes you uncomfortable you have to let them know right then and there
Monica*
11-18-2004, 03:42 AM
yea! homegirlz got your back!
greengirlie
11-18-2004, 06:48 AM
hahah :-D thanks yall for the advice!!! they move in tomorrow....
Sherri
11-29-2004, 11:15 PM
If she really is your best friend, and if he is a respectable guy who wouldn't hurt you....then you have nothing to worry about!
Chances are they will drive each other crazy living under the same roof...plus they are gonna be seeing each other at each others worst times...so don't worry about a thing! smileys/smiley1.gif