View Full Version : Louisville vs. Indianapolis
Mr. Cleanface
01-04-2005, 07:25 AM
I am thinking about moving back toLouisville. I love Indy, but I miss the 'Ville.....
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Cleanface you know what I voted. Indy is a great city. I wouldn't recommend coming here on vacation or anything but it is a fun city to live in.
Louisville is a nice city also though.
ramble on rose
01-04-2005, 03:01 PM
never been to either place, but mr. c, you gotta follow you heart, and do what makes you happy. We move all the time, and finally moved back to va, eventhough we loved phoenix, va is where are heart was. Of course we're ready to move again, but home is where you deceide tolay you head.
G'sLuva
01-05-2005, 01:43 PM
Weigh your options man, moving is no fun! Will your girl be going with you? That makes all the difference as well.
Mr. Cleanface
01-05-2005, 06:18 PM
My girl lives there, in L'Ville, and she wants to move here to Indy. She has already worked it out with her job and her move in date would be April 3rd. I would rather just move back to the Ville than have her move here. Her family is there, friends, etc.... Plus I lived there for like 4 years and have been in Indy for only a year. Soooo it is confusing for me.
greengirlie
01-05-2005, 09:40 PM
aww that is a tough situation...but does she want to leave family and friends behind? b/c sometimes it is nice to get away from family (not saying that bitchy) but sometimes you grow closer when you leave...
Monica*
01-05-2005, 10:12 PM
what ever you do you better still visit me in chicago. we gotta hit another show so you have achance to get even with me and crash MY car. smileys/smiley2.gif
Mr. Cleanface
01-06-2005, 12:36 AM
what ever you do you better still visit me in chicago. we gotta hit another show so you have achance to get even with me and crash MY car. smileys/smiley2.gif
Yeah, I do need to crash your car!!! Thats the thing about the Ville it is only an hour and a half south of Indy, I could make it to Chy-town in no time! I REALLY don't want to move/sell my house, and yes she is willing to leave her family/friends/job all that, I just think that if one of us is going to move i'd rather it be me for the above reasons.... Plus her leaving all that behind makes me feel pressure.Like I am going to responsible for her happiness if she moves here. I don't think I am ready for that. Hell we have only been dating formaybe 3 months.
I hate having this power over women. They want to marry me so soon after we start dating. This is the third girl like this. WEARIN' ME OUT!!!
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ben04
01-06-2005, 01:37 AM
well, as a girl, I can tell you good guys are VERY hard to find.....
That is the problem with girls in their mid to late twenties. THEY ALL WANT TO GET MARRIED. What happened to just having fun and seeing where it leads. 3 out of the last 4 girls that I dated seriously were married within 1 year of us breaking up.
The only thing bad about your girl moving up here is that she won't have any friends of her own. So that will make it harder to get away when you want some space.
Good luck,
Fox
ragmop
01-06-2005, 02:23 PM
3 out of the last 4 girls that I dated seriously were married within 1 year of us breaking up.
Almost the same situation here. Mine is the last 2 out of 2. I'm starting to get a complex. I even called my last ex and (jokingly) told her to break the streak by not marrying the new fellow. Had her rolling! smileys/smiley1.gif
ramble on rose
01-06-2005, 03:57 PM
I agree, chicks at this age all seem to be like that. I have a few friends who are the same way. They want marriage and they want it NOW!!! If you don't want to move, don't do it. If you aren't ready for her to move up there with you, tell her, be honest. She may not like what she hears at first, but she will respect your honesty. You should never rush into these situations. Take your time and do what is best for you. Let me just add this, enjoy your life while it is still yours, before you have to share everything with someone else.
ragmop
01-06-2005, 06:03 PM
Amen! toRamble'shonesty advice!M2C ("My 2 Cents"): We are all called to live and honest and true life.No guarantees that it is painfreeor easy. It's just theright thing to do, and the way we should all treat each other.
No worries. Be honest, andthe chips will fall where they are ultimately suppose to fall. I'll get off my soapbox now. Damn, that thing is WAY too comfortable.
Peace, and good luck with yourdecision, b/c that would be a very difficult one to make.
kelli420
01-06-2005, 08:27 PM
shit...u should mve to philly...party it up here! you'd love it
ben04
01-06-2005, 10:27 PM
yeah I do feel like afe of my friends are married or engaged to the person they are with just becasue they are with that person now. Not so much becasue they can/want to spend the rest of their life with that person... but becausegetting marriedis what they feel they should be doing in their life now.
justinreid
01-07-2005, 12:10 AM
If you and Monica need another car crash I'll call my friend Mike up for ya smileys/smiley2.gif
Monica*
01-08-2005, 10:48 PM
If you and Monica need another car crash I'll call my friend Mike up for ya smileys/smiley2.gif
Ha!! graet idea!! make the call!
So I've been dating this guy for 6 1/2 years and I don't want to get married.