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BabydollFaceoff
04-07-2005, 05:13 AM
So, I got in a HUGE fight with my boyfriend last night...for NO REASON!!! Okay...I did have several drinks...but I was just pick, pick, picking at him until he snapped! I don't blame him today, but it was pretty intense.
He is a great guy, and for some unknown reason, I just felt like sabotaging everything. Luckily for me, he is understanding and willing to talk things through, so things are good between us.
I am old enough to know better than to play stupid games, so why do I like to start these petty fights???http://209.41.161.96/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif
Abilities
04-07-2005, 10:00 AM
matador chasing bull in a china shop.
PERRY
04-07-2005, 11:39 AM
So, I got in a HUGE fight with my boyfriend last night...for NO REASON!!!Â* Okay...I did have several drinks...but I was just pick, pick, picking at him until he snapped!Â* I don't blame him today, but it was pretty intense.
He is a great guy, and for some unknown reason, I just felt like sabotaging everything.Â* Luckily for me, he is understanding and willing to talk things through, so things are good between us.
I am old enough to know better than to play stupid games, so why do I like to start these petty fights???http://209.41.161.96/forum/smileys/smiley5.gif
Nice job smileys/smiley5.gif you said you dont like playing games and then you pick pick pick until he snaps. That is a game. smileys/smiley19.gif
Vanessa27
04-07-2005, 03:12 PM
You said you are too old, how old are you? Sometimes guys just get on our nerves. Are you really to blame, or has he convinced you that you are to blame? I'm just curious, because at the time maybe the things that were bothering you were very real and you had to get it out. It's better than letting it build up until you can't stand him anymore. I don't know. Either way, nobody's perfect. I wouldn't sweat it to much.
B-Love
04-07-2005, 03:16 PM
You said you are too old, how old are you? Sometimes guys just get on our nerves. Are you really to blame, or has he convinced you that you are to blame? I'm just curious, because at the time maybe the things that were bothering you were very real and you had to get it out. It's better than letting it build up until you can't stand him anymore. I don't know. Either way, nobody's perfect. I wouldn't sweat it to much.
I would, it sounds as though she always has these issues...
I have come to the conclusion that most women need a certain amount of drama in there lives to be happy. If it is not there then they will create it.
Fox
Vanessa27
04-07-2005, 07:05 PM
Fox1
You win - you are right! Seriously though - men sometimes (not all) act like fools and can be insensitive. Women (not all) sometimes tend to let this shit build up and then let loose, leaving the man wondering WTF!!?? Relationships, ugh! When you don't have one, you want one, when you do, you wish you didn't.
greengirlie
04-07-2005, 07:11 PM
I have come to the conclusion that most women need a certain amount of drama in there lives to be happy. If it is not there then they will create it.
Fox
hahah so true. that is most girls i know. that is exactly why im not friends with girls.
Mr. Cleanface
04-07-2005, 09:46 PM
I have come to the conclusion that most women need a certain amount of drama in there lives to be happy. If it is not there then they will create it.
Fox
Fecking PERFECT!!! That's your answer. This thread is officially CLOSED!!!
CynCyn
04-08-2005, 10:03 AM
Wait a second, I agree somewhat. When I had a relationship there was definitely drama that we BOTH created. Guys can be drama queens too. However, I am not in a relationship now and i don't want one. DRAMA-don't need it, don't create it!
B-Love
04-08-2005, 02:15 PM
Save the drama for yo Mama!
LipstickVogue
04-09-2005, 08:19 AM
i dont agree that girls need drama. i completely disagree. i think both sexes are equally as guilty as creating it. and right on to you CynCyn - too many people feel that they need relationships.. i think thats really sad, and i love that you can obviously still feel like a whole person without one.
im not insulting those of you in relationships but im so tired of the old cliches that first of all one has to have one to be worth something, and second that they have to be full of bullshit and drama when you are in one.
as for picking at your boyfriend - maybe vanessa is right, maybe you have some valid points that you need to work out. yes, games are childish and stupid, but perhaps you should try to see if there is some underlying problem that nees resolving.
ragmop
04-10-2005, 03:07 AM
I am in norelationship right now, and it is very cool.Absolutely love the freedom, space, quiet, etc. Definitely don't miss the drama of the past two long-term relationships. I domiss other things about those lovely, beautiful women, but thatwill remain very private, thank you (and not just physical, you pervs!).
But LSV is dead on (yeah!). Dramais not a gender thing. Drama is a byproduct of all relationships. Itcan betherapeutic and healthy. That being said,lots of drama is a function of a very bad relationship (IMO). And if you find yourselves working through a lot of drama all the time, start being honest and end it. It is definitely a warning and a sign of incompatibility (again IMO)
And I know the vibe of which LSV speaks-- others always think thatyou need to be in a relationship to have worth. That kind of thinking fails to recognizerelationships can benegative, and destructive to both.If you find a good relationship, that's heaven. But I would rather avoid altogether 100 bad relationships, even if itmeant being single for the next 5years. (I don't know, 5 years as a loser might be too much! JFWY)
Peace y'all.Edited by: ragmop