sex and sexuality

[LipstickVogue]

so Washington University here in STL has a student run magazine called "X" about sex and sexuality. its got photos, stories, poems.. people share their thoughts on issues like HIV or polyamorous relationships, some share their secret desires. i think its one of the coolest things ive ever seen. its a place where people can write anonymously if they choose about an experience, good or bad.. anyway, i just thought it was amazing. i wanna try to start one at my school in detroit when i get there if there isnt one already.


just wanted to share with you all, i thought a lot of you would think thats a neat idea too. especially since several of us have shared our sex stories/views on here. feel free to share one on this thread if you like. i might. its kinda raunchy, i guess. i dont really know, cause not much phases me, so i dont have a concept of what might be raunchy to other people. anyway, i'll post it if anyone wants to read it. i have no shame.Edited by: LipstickVogue

[BoPicasso]

I like to read the savage love section of the River front times... I always get a kick out of peoples sex stories... lol

[kelli420]

hhmmmm drunken naked bong smokin sexfest...last summer w my friend evan whom i still chill with a lot.....only did it that once...lol


i love stories, i couldgo on all day! but i wont

[ben04]

the stories in cosmo are always very entertaining. smileys/smiley2.gif

[LipstickVogue]

oh, come on kelli, we need the entertainment! j/k. stories are always fun, but i like that this magazine is also for people to let out fantasies too. i think its all fun. but im probably hornier than the average person.. im dirrrty, like X-tina. smileys/smiley1.gif

[kelli420]

ok fantasy


garrett and i.....um well everywhere in front of anyone...all the time! i cant go into detail. use your imagination and multiply by like 50....and thats what ive got in mind.

[LipstickVogue]

hehe, i wrote this thing, its basically when i become attracted to someone, all the stuff i wanna do to them and all the stuff i want them to do to me. i wrote as if its a note to the person rather than a narrative... but im not sure that posting on here is a good idea.


they say that women who are assertive and strong in everyday life like to be dominated in the bedroom. anyone else agree with that?


and kelli, as far as Garrett goes, we'll say for now(so as not to harm the precious eyes of this forum, *snicker*) that i picture lots of hair pulling, scratching, bruising, biting... rough and dirty. Edited by: LipstickVogue

[kelli420]

and to bring you into my fantasy..haha you can tape it all..cause you better believe id let anyone see it who wanted to....w/ g's permission of course...and you forgot sweatingsmileys/smiley2.gif

[LipstickVogue]

damn, how could i forget sweating! silly me.we could take turns video taping. kelli, give him this poem:


Can sorrow fill my lonely heart?


I love you, i truly do.


Sleep is sweet when i dream of you,.


With all these thoughts in mind,


You mus read the first word in every line.


so, i didnt write it, and its kinda lame, but also kinda funny.

[GiveItToYou]

Thats a great poem. Im gefinatly gonna have to use that in the future.

[greengirlie]

i think you hould post some of the things from that magazine- sounds interesting

[LipstickVogue]

my friend borrowed it, but as soon as i get it back(hopefully tonight) i was thinking about that. im not sure if im ready to post what i wrote, although if i said it was in the mag from anonymous no one would know if it really was or not... AH HA HA HA!! smileys/smiley4.gif


ahem. anyway, if i acctually get my own startedi will definitly have some sort of online thing for it too. its just too damn interesting not to.

[greengirlie]

...post yours!!!

[john]

Hey kelli420 that naked drunken bong sex fest sounds really hot.Hey you never Know your fantasy with G might come true someday you never know.LSV I realy dig your pome to,nice.

[john]

greengirlie just wondering hows your mom feelin.I ve been sending good vibes everyday towards your way.Hope she feels better.


Peace

[LipstickVogue]

unfortunately, i dont know who wrote it. it was found on the internet by a friend probably 10 years ago.. wow. that makes me feel old. and im only 25. anyway, i wish i knew who wrote it so i could give them credit every time i share it with some one.


greengirlie, give me a bit, i have to work up the courage. im not ashamed, but for some reason its so much easier to talk about sexual desires in person as a narrative conversation rather than writing it down for people to read. i dont know why it should be different, but it is for some reason.

[john]

yeah I hear ya!Your not old dont think like that.25 is still young and you should have all the courage in the world.You sound like a very smart person and very talented.that means alotnow a days.You should feel very proud of yourself.The poem is still good.Thanks for sharingit.


Peace

[Chyla]

When I came to the forum today, I clicked on this thread so fast, it reallyjumped out at me! Nothing like sex to get one's attention.


Fantasies and narratives are all good, whatever floats your boat, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. That's kind of my sex motto. And I have my share of kinky stories...nothing too wild, but I've done a little "experimenting." Who hasn't? Tho now I'm at a very BORING phase of my sex life, kids will do that to you. Esp. if they sleep with you in the same bed! Lol. Picture this: me, bf, 18-mon. Zion, and two dogs in one bed. And now I'm pregnant too. Doesn't exactly add up to a recipe for hot lovin'!


I agree with the confident women in the bedroom thing. I've always been really assertive and forward, and guys will always assume I'm a dominatrix or something. In reality I prob. like to be dominated more. Nothing will make my knees melt like a guy taking charge sexually. I do my share too, but I'm inclined to let him take the lead.


If everyone is so inclined (and comfortable) to start sharing stories, maybe I'll share mine.smileys/smiley2.gifNudge, nudge, wink, wink, say no more!

[LipstickVogue]

ive shared the story about the threesome i had on here before, but if anyone who didnt get to read it wants, to i will be more than happy to post. the thing that the mag inspired me to write isnt a story or a narrative. its written as if it were a dirty note to someone. its basically the things that go through my mind once i first become attracted to someone. i cant really warn how "dirty" it is because i dont know everyone's personal stance on what is dirty and what is not. but here goes(youre all going to think im a freak or a nympho. and i guess i am):








...to say that i am not curious what it might feel like to have you shove your cock forcefully inside me would be untrue, a blatant lie. It would also be a lie to tell you i have never imagined myself dragging my nails down your pale skin, pulling your hair as i writhe and cry out while you fuck me mercilessly. Or how wet and frantic i might feel when you speak explicitly in my lear, low and teasing. And may i be so forward as to tell you how much i would enjoy rubbing my face down your entire body, feeling intoxicated by the scent of your skin? i'd spend extra time nuzzled in your neck, and also brushing my cheek against your cock. And i wonder, would you hold me down, bite me, leaving lovely red and purple marks to remind me of our encounter? Would it please you if i pleasured myself while sucking your cock? Would you lick my pussy, to try to see how loud you could make me scream? How hard would you fuck me? Would i be bruised and sore for days, rendered breathless with each bit of pain? Would you try to make me come over and over until i felt like passing out...


whew! i need a drink. i feel sort of embarassed to be posting this. but caution be damned. there you go.

[john]

HEEEHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!WOW!!!!I think it is really getting hot in here meaning the fourm.Ha HA Love the story.OH Ya


Edited by: john

[LipstickVogue]

smileys/smiley9.gifglad you enjoyed it.

[greengirlie]

awww LSV..... Im glad you posted!!!


Loved it!! and def. wasnt too raunchy.


anyways...I dont know if i like to be dominated in bed or take control... Im pretty assertive normally, shy at first tho. it uisually depends on the guy.... it sucks because the guys i have the best sex with are usually the ones that im most attracted to but arent that attracted to me and vise-versa.


and since were talking about sex and all... im gonna bring this up for the ladies: do any of y'all like to swallow or suck dick for that matter? b/c most of my friends think im werid for liking to swallow.


it's like eating a blow-pop and not getting the cum i mean gum if you dont swallow smileys/smiley2.gif


p.s Thanks for asking John- as of right now she is doing pretty good- no cancer cells are showing up but they want her to do chemo when she's healthy so she is starting chemo in about a week. smileys/smiley19.gif thanks so much for the good vibes.Edited by: greengirlie

[LipstickVogue]

i love everything about going down. i seriously love sucking cock. as much if not more than recieving. but i wont give it to anyone who doesnt love giving it. if im passionate about it, they should be too, dammit! and i do love to swallow, i agree. i mean, if they shoot it elsewhere, its alright, but its more fun when you get to swallow it or lick it up...


so, i wanna know who these girls are that are stingy with the oral sex or with sex in general, cause most i talk to are like me and want it all day everyday. like in the "baby i like it" when G is talking about chicks holding the pussy hostage. who the hell are these girls?

[kelli420]

smileys/smiley2.gifespecially anyone who comes near him?! i'd like to know that myself.


OH MY lsvsmileys/smiley10.gifhow did you get my thoughts on paper w/out me telling you?! yep you can definitley be thedirector in it toosmileys/smiley2.gifsmileys/smiley2.gif good shit thanx for posting. i think im def. not as open to ever write the dirty things that go on in my head. maybe after i get a comp i'll come home all drunk and give ya'll some icky kelli thoughts.. gosh im so tired.... ooo i talked to corey yesterday for like 20 min....im an idioit i get all excited over 20 minutes on the phone....

[BoPicasso]

Lipstick, greenie, U 2 are some good women! LOLsmileys/smiley14.gif U guys are definately gonna make a nice guy really really happy!!!!smileys/smiley2.gifEdited by: BoPicasso

[T_Norway]

who the hell are these girls?

You'd be amazed (and maybe a bit scared) how many who are like this,
but I find girls who don't even like doggy style even scarier!



Lipstick, Greenie, U 2 is also a crappy band! And Bo is right!



(maybe I'll post my Einstein BJ-story a bit later)

[Chyla]

Personally, I think if you're going to go down on a guy, you should swallow. It seems kind of insulting not to. At least in my mind.


LsV, that's some pretty powerful stuff. Maybe G will read that and remember your artwork...and think "Damn, I missed my chance! Oh well, maybe on the cruise." LOL.

[kelli420]

Personally, I think if you're going to go down on a guy, you should swallow. It seems kind of insulting not to. At least in my mind.


LsV, that's some pretty powerful stuff. Maybe G will read that and remember your artwork...and think "Damn, I missed my chance! Oh well, maybe on the cruise." LOL.








i couldnt agree w/ you more. ive always thought it was kinda rude to spit but a lot of my friends look at me wierd for it....idk i guess to each their own but i know im glad we wont be making any messes on that ship, right lsv and chylasmileys/smiley2.gifsmileys/smiley2.gif

[Fox1]

I think you should swallow. We don't have the oppertunity to spit so the whole time we are down there we are swallowing your juice. I think a pole needs to be started. Plus I think it is hot as hell.





Fox

[LipstickVogue]

i think its rude too. i mean, if it really bothers someone that much to swallow, they should at least be polite about it and spit so the guy cant see it or something like that.. just never bothered me that much i guess. if im willing to go down on a guy im willing to swallow.


Chyla, i'll just write it down and slip the note to G on the cruise.. hehe, okay no i wont cause im a wuss. but it sure is a fun thought.

[sauce.baby]

i'm a sucker but not a swallower nor spitter. i love the feeling of
simultanious orgasms so it always feels like such a waste to suck or
rub him off! like, even if he licks me off in return, it still feels
like i didn't get mine! lol






they say that women who are assertive and strong in everyday life
like to be dominated in the bedroom. anyone else agree with that?




yup, i agree lol it sucks to have to take charge of EVERYTHING in your
life.. sometimes you just wanna be thrown down and tied up! i try to
tell this to mr sauce all the time, but he just doesn't have the guts..
he's got a beautiful rod but doesn't know how to use it properly with
me!! smileys/smiley19.gif he wonders why i don't seem as interested in sex anymore, it's cause i'm sick of doing everything!!

the MOST dominating and creative he got was over the 4th of july when i
was just SHITFACED drunk and horney as all hell and i agreed to a
3-some with him and his best friend [not my first choice of mr sauce's
friends for a 3-some, but you take it when you can, right? lol]

he even talks sometimes about getting some 'toys' to play with, but
that's it! he's just all talk! my best friend is all like, why don't
you just buy something yourself then? but i don't want to! it's his
idea, he needs to follow thru with it! this guy can't even buy a
playboy! when we first started dating he wanted the playboy with angie
everheart on the cover, I had to go into the 7-11 and ask for it for
him! lol my boy needs to grow some man-sized balls to go with his
man-sized dick smileys/smiley3.gif

hahaha, but enough of that rant smileys/smiley9.gif

[LipstickVogue]

i think i'd eventually get so frantic in that situation, i just be like "just fuck me already, i dont want your foreplay, i dont want your tenderness, throw me down and give me some fucking bruises or im just gonna go take care of it myself!"


threesomes are fun, but ive never had a MMF threesome. the MFF was fun, but i think i'd really really like a MMF.

[BoPicasso]

ok ok.. This is great.. lol First of all, this could be one of the best threads so far. lol


If I was in a serious relationship with someone, I dont think I could have a MMF threesome.. I think its my male territorial thing... Im engaged and I couldnt imagine my woman with someone else... I dont think she would either, she dont even like dancin with other guys.....


Sauce baby, could u elaborate on that for me.. lol

[LipstickVogue]

well, i dont know if i could do either MMF or FMM and be completely comfortable. the one i had, it was no strings attatched sex for everyone involved, so it worked great.


oh yeah, and saucebaby, i forgot to say, thats my only "problem" with oral sex.. i dont need simultaneous orgasm, but i can come 10 times in a row if the guy has the stamina, so i dont want it to be over too quickly. i love "smoking pole"(ah ha ha ha that term is so funny to me), but i just want keep things going.

[sauce.baby]

hahaha elaborate on what? mr sauce and i have a very open relationship.
we both realize we're human, and even tho we are married and
devoted to each other, it doesn't mean we are blind. i'm very
bi-curious [tho very shy when it finally comes down to it lmao probably
why we've never done MFF yet], so we're always compairing notes on
women we see while we're out, and he loves to hear me talk about guys
i'd like to do lol heck, his other best friend is even on my top 5 list
of guys. he thinks it's great.

the MMF was awesome. nothing like a boost to the ego from having TWO guys paying that kind of attn to you smileys/smiley17.gif

[kelli420]

ive never had a threesome but i'll try anything once. id love the attn from a mmf although i would try a mff too.

[LipstickVogue]

have i ever told you all that smoking weed makes me come(with no touching at all) over and over and over, for like, 2 hours? i have yet to acctually fuck while im high, but i think i might explode.. but anyway, its really awesome, which is why i acctually dont do it too often, i worry that it wont be that good if i do it too much!


i think my picture is in the dictionary next to nympho.smileys/smiley3.gif

[sauce.baby]

hahahhaha!!!

the best sex i've ever had was after eating some highly potent special brownies..



it's also how i ended up with my second son smileys/smiley3.gifsmileys/smiley17.gif

[greengirlie]

..... i actually dont like receiving- just because i know what goes on down there once a month and i just cant enjoy myself when a guy is doing it. ive only let like 3 guys ever and i guess once i get over the "no.. no...let me just give you a blow job" then im find and love it.... but yeah its getting me to actually let a guy do it that's the problem.


id gladly give anyday w/o getting anything back in return. i prefer the guy to finger me while i go down on him or me do it myself....


I've had two MMF threesomes and ummm yeah lots of fun because then you are the star of the show if you are the girl smileys/smiley4.gifI jsut think its kinda werid that guys are willing to do that together- but more power to them! still see 2 of the guys all the time! luckily the other two are back in houston. haha

[LipstickVogue]

i guess i should clarify, i wouldnt have any problem giving surprise morning head or somthing to that effect and not getting any in return. but ive dealt with too many guys who only wanna get off and dont care if youre turned on or enjoying yourself, and im just not going to tolerate it. i decided it when i was 19, and now at 25, im not getting much play right now, but when i do, its phenominal. it takes me awhile before i warm up enought to allow someone to go down on me, but they have to be willing to, they have to not be immature about it. make sense? its not about oral sex specifically, its about being an experimental open-minded lover who is willing and enjoys giving reciprocation.


i acctually havent had sex since i was raped. my sex drive came back a while ago, but i just havent come across anyone im attracted to. for a while i couldnt stand the thought of it, and that made me very sad, but now im about to burst! but i cant find anyone who wants to have sex with me that im attracted to. damn dry spells..


hopefully, when i come across someone, i wont tackle them and scare the hell out of them. hehe.

[ragmop]

LSV:


Dry spells do suck, but when it ends it's like a flood. The drought will end soon.


And good for you--Forget the fells who won't go down on you. I know everyone is different, but damn, any guy who doesn't loooovvvee going down is f**king nuts. I'm serious. Looking up and watching a womanjump and climb freakin walls, clench fists, scratch shoulders,and get, um, let's say "vocal" isone of the mostamazing things to behold. If a fella can't appreciate the beauty in orally satisfying you, he will NEVER truly see you--and he ain't worth the wasted time.


Hold on, LSV. The dry spell will end very, very soon. This will be a forgotten thread when it happens.


Just a little advice. Hope you don't mind. As always, peace . . .Edited by: ragmop

[john]

ragmop I like that quote.Dry spells do suck,but when it ends its like a flood.that is so true.

[ragmop]

ragmop I like that quote.Dry spells do suck,but when it ends its like a flood.that is so true.


Life experiences, my friend. And muchos bienvenidos, Juan. Glad to have you here.

[sauce.baby]

i acctually havent had sex since i was raped. my sex drive came back
a while ago, but i just havent come across anyone im attracted to. for
a while i couldnt stand the thought of it..



i was the same way.. i had already started dating another guy when it
happened and was afraid to tell him about it and was able to dodge
having sex with him by using the 'that time of the month' excuse, but
then he remembered i was on the shot and that i didn't get periods
because of it and i was like, "uhmm.. i just wasn't up to it" and he
got upset that i wasn't comfortable enough to say no, so i guilt
tripped myself into having sex with him again and, wow, FLASHBACK
central.. i started flipping out apparently -scared the shit out of
him- then passed out and started talking in my sleep about it..

i'd say be a bit glad about your dry spell.. just to know you're over
it enough.. i even still had a flashback or two when i was dating mr
sauce some 3 1/2yrs later..





but.. yeah.. now that i've rained on this whole thread!! go me! [i'm such a dumbass]smileys/smiley34.gif





on a lighter note, i'd SO have a 3-some with you nat! you can show me how it's done and i'm sure mr sauce would love it too smileys/smiley2.gif

[john]

thanks ragmop.much love for you too

[LipstickVogue]

yeah, in some ways i am glad. even after my sex drive came back, i would randomly have flashback, like when i was doing laundry and stupid shit like that. i think it has been long enough now, i and i feel like i would be ready for it.


in my threesome, i remember there being a point when i wasnt sure who's hand was in my crotch.. and then i realized it didnt matter.smileys/smiley2.gif


i dont know if i am qualified to give instructions though. but im a trooper and i would sure as hell try!

[LipstickVogue]

oh yeah, thanks, ragmop. i have pretty good self-esteem and all that, but after a while a girl starts to wonder. at this point though, i have no doubt that is going to be amazing when it finally ends. smileys/smiley4.gif

[kelli420]

smileys/smiley2.gifsmileys/smiley2.gif

[sauce.baby]

in my threesome, i remember there being a
point when i wasnt sure who's hand was in my crotch.. and then i
realized it didnt matter.smileys/smiley2.gif




lmao!!! thankfully, in the mmf, it was easy to tell who was where smileys/smiley3.gifsmileys/smiley17.gif











i dont know if i am qualified to give instructions though. but im a trooper and i would sure as hell try!




"asking questions is a great way of finding out answers!" THANKS A LOT
SESAME STREET! lol dunno why that popped into my head..

for some reason i'm much more shy about the thought of a mff, i'm sure
if i put down a few amf's to relax it'd be all good tho lol

[greengirlie]

[/QUOTE]

"asking questions is a great way of finding out answers!" THANKS A LOT SESAME STREET! lol dunno why that popped into my head..
for some reason i'm much more shy about the thought of a mff, i'm sure if i put down a few amf's to relax it'd be all good tho lol
[/QUOTE]


Ummm yeah im scare of a MFF too for some reason. maybe its the fact that i may be shown up by the other girl

[LipstickVogue]

did i ever mention to you guys that some of my friends nicknamed me High Priestess Orgasmia?


anyway, my threesome wasnt planned or anything, and i dunno, i just didnt feel intimidated. but thats because the other girl was a lesbian who was attracted to me and not so much the guy. smileys/smiley4.gif

[ragmop]

Never had a threesome. smileys/smiley6.gif


In no wayopposed, just haven't had the good fortune to have situation present itself. Someday . ..Edited by: ragmop

[kelli420]

me either but id so be down....hhmmm party at my house, whos comin...

[ragmop]

Hopefully everybody . . .

[BoPicasso]

Forum orgy huh... Then we would have a nice topic to discus ...


LOLsmileys/smiley2.gif

[LipstickVogue]

im there, kelli, but only if saucebaby is invited too.


but id settle for some one on one too, im aching for some.. and its not that i couldnt get any if i tried, but like i said earlier, i cant seem to find anyone that wants me thats not gross or that im just not attracted to. and i just cant bring myself to do it under those circumstances.

[kelli420]

i always wanted to meet the phamilysmileys/smiley2.gif

[LipstickVogue]

yes, and ive always wanted to know the phamily in the biblical sense.. okay i made that up, but it makes me sound cool, right? right?? smileys/smiley2.gif


i say we need to have one those old time orgies, like in rome and greece and stuff. i think we need lots of oils and stuff for that though..

[john]

smileys/smiley17.gifheehaaa did somebody say orgy.hahaha smileys/smiley17.gifEdited by: john

[LipstickVogue]

ooh, i could have a housewarming orgy! i did have a "make out" party for my birthday once. but i only got 5 make outs and 2 lap dances, how weak! one of these days im gonna find some friends who arent too uptight to have orgies or at least make out with each other in honor of my birthday.

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[sauce.baby]

im there, kelli, but only if saucebaby is invited too.




i'd come whether invited or not smileys/smiley2.gif no way i'd miss that shit! lol






i say we need to have one those old time orgies, like in rome and
greece and stuff. i think we need lots of oils and stuff for that
though..





toga party!!! only BETTER.

don't forget the grapes! smileys/smiley17.gif