do you really listen to music during sex?

[LipstickVogue]

so i was thinking about the whole thing. and i cant speak for anyone else, but for me, musis during sex is entirely poinless. not to say that it never gets me in a sexual mood, music often moves me deeply in many ways. however, almost always, those ways are internal. maybe it spawns a sexual fantasy or helps to put me in the mood, but during the actual sex, the only thing it does for me is distract if the sex is bad or something like that, and potentially muffle any sex noises when you dont want others to overhear. if i play music during sex, and the sex is enjoyable, then i dont even hear the music. for me, there comes a point during sex where im no longer thinking about fantasies, music or anything else but the sensation. once i get to this point, im not even thinking about when or how i move, i just do it. its like i am entranced. im focusing on the sensation and the emotions. but im not thinking "wow this is so great" or "i love this person very much" is in a much more abstract way. its there, and i can recognize it, but my mind is not articulating all of this. not to say that playing music during sex is something i am opposed to, its just that it doesnt really do anything for me to enhance the situation. im just curious what you all thought on this.

[ragmop]

my vote: no music. it adds nothing to the intimacy.

[Clete-Tron]

music is weird for me too. but a lot of times my girl friend and i will out on the hustle and have like "casual sex". either that or like a j5 album.

[greengirlie]

hmm I dont know. I'm up in the air on this one. I think I like music at this point in my life just cause as you stated... fi you dont want ur roomate to hear sex noises.... and I live with a guy, so I dont want him hearing me have sex.. it would be like eharing his sister have sex.

[sauce.baby]

now see, i love music during sex. i can't really explain why.. but,
it's like it just completes the package.. like a soundtrack. and it's
so much fun to play with.. moving with the beat, singing sexy ass
lyrics to each other..



that said, i don't always get to listen to music while i'm having sex, like during spontaneous sex, and that's fine.

but, if i'm setting up a special event, you better believe i've got music picked out to match the mood i'm planning to be in. smileys/smiley16.gif

[LipstickVogue]

theres no way i could focus on singing song lyrics during sex... i guess i can see how it works for other people, but i dont need music or anything else to enhance the mood, i just need my own mind, i guess. smileys/smiley2.gif

[sauce.baby]

lol music is the rhythm of my life.. and sex is apart of my life, too, so it only makes sense to mesmileys/smiley17.gif



and it's not like we constantly sing to each other lol it's usually
just in the beginning.. a form of foreplay during sex i guess

[LipstickVogue]

i can understand that, but i guess music for me is often something i want to experience without interuptions and so is sex. its not that it doesnt make sense to me, its just not how i experience it, you know? i dont want some guy trying to get up on me while im trying to listen to my music, its something very personal to me. music during sex though, i just dont pay attention to it, so it is insignificant to me weather or not its on. it just doesnt really add anything to it for me, thats all.

[tinkerlion]

when the music is on i really enjoy it, but it's not too often i remember to turn it on. i guess music is just such an essential part of the day for me it just seems natural to have it on. sometimes what i enjoy the most is selecting the music. i like the feeling of setting a specific mood.

[the duke]

i agree with rag....no music, it's too distracting...

[swaytosway]

I like music best when I'm having a 3some with MaryJane.

[ragmop]

I like music best when I'm having a 3some with MaryJane.


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[Barefoot2Dream]

music, no music > inside, outside, upside, backside > top, bottom > bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, garage > breaking up, making up, making love > backseat, frontseat, hood of my midnight blue '69 camaro during a thunderstorm in the parking lot of a CA Highway Patrol officesmileys/smiley2.gif.....geez I miss that car.


It is all good to me! mmmmmm... smileys/smiley17.gif

[sauce.baby]

i guess music is just such an essential part of the
day for me it just seems natural to have it on. sometimes what i enjoy
the most is selecting the music. i like the feeling of setting a
specific mood.


YESSS.



thank you

[LipstickVogue]

i wasnt arguing that is wrong or weird, and music is essential for me too, i was just trying to say that for me personally, it makes no difference, cause i wont pay attention to it anyway. and if i do, i will be zoned into the music, not the sex. its like at my borders when they play shit that really dont like on the overhead. it doesnt matter and i dont complain, cause i tune it out. its not like if someone wants to play it that i will be mad or it will ruin the mood, it just wont add anything for me. i never suggested that music wasnt an essential part of my day, but i prefer to be alone to listen to music, and i mean really listen to it. the way iexperience music is something i really prefer to keep to myself. even at a concert with lots of good friends, it really wouldnt matter if they werent there at all cause i dont notice them.

[tinkerlion]

everyone has their own experience with music. that's one of the great things about it to me. music is very personal, as is the way each individual equates it into their everyday life.