my friends are pissing me off

[allsphair]

under the anonymity of allsphair, I can vent what I am really feeling right now. Why is it that all of a sudden my girl friends are acting like they in junior high? Why is it that when some people get married they ease to think they exist as individuals and feel the need to include thier asshole husbands in EVERYTHING. Not my friend.... my FRIEND_IN_LAW. Seriously. They are stupid. And did I mention immature?

[tinkerlion]

that sucks. hopefully in time the newness will wear off some, and you can get back to seeing your friend solo. i'm guessing you're not too big a fan of the husband?

[34redsox34]

friends some times can be pains.I'm sure it will all pass and things will be cool again.keep your head up high and don't stress over it...:) :) :) :)

[lietuvaite]

hopefully it'll taper off soon... it's a natural transition to try to make couple friends when you first become a couple. but it's important to keep that individual identity, and more fun. tell her how you feel...

[Rensul]

it really will wear off- but maybe you should tell them you would like to do something one on one...that is what i would do:)

[Jaykob]

I can relate to that with out a doubt! My friends are total flops! All they do is sit around all day when the sun is shining and there are waves to hit up. Same old thing with them....drink a ton at night and then sleep all day....ugh. It's gotton old! Don't even get me on the girlfriend thing either. There's places to go a new experiences to be had! Sitting around watching TV with some B sucks! I'm about to get a caddle prod out and whoop some lame ass!

[allsphair]

we make plans to kidnap her every month.... its the only way that it happens. But when you get an email from your friends husband with a commentary on your life and relationship? really? ugh.

[lietuvaite]

But when you get an email from your friends husband with a commentary on your life and relationship? really? ugh.

Now that is awful. I thought it was your friend who didn't want to do anything w/o her husband. And it's just plain weird. Usually men fear losing their independence/individuality and encourage women to keep going out, etc., not the other way around. I can't imagine my husband ever emailing a friend of mine to tell them what he thinks about them or asking me not to hang out with friends... sounds a little controlling to me.

[allsphair]

I am slowly getting over it. Not that i will ever really like him again... when he tells me that I should "grow a spine" and that MY boyfriend "walks all over" ME? You can't judge that when you only hang out once a month. Plus, we are probably going to be married eventually, so.... way to make an eternity of uncomfortable moments!

[lietuvaite]

i'm still not past the email crap. i can't believe he emailed you and butted in where he doesn't belong. what a jerk.